
When Tom and Barry were young lads, they did not realize that they were marked out from all other
children. One thing was as strange to them as another, all was accepted without questioning. Father took
us to live on L'Estrange Head when mother died, at which age I was only a tot of three and the boys
mere babies. In the wild surroundings of the Head, we children were thoroughly at home. We all loved
this beautiful spot in which I still remain. I'm thankful they returned to the Head in the end, before the last
act of their tragedy was played out.
We could name all the plants growing on the Head, thanks to the teaching of our father. Down in the salt
marshes, where the land is still regularly washed by the tides, grows a plant called the grass wrack. The
wreck is often immersed in the sea for long periods. It can even flower under the water, and nature so
provides for it that its pollen is water-borne. I often think of that humble plant in connection with my dead
brothers. They also had their flowering, however submerged it might have been.
Nobody can deny that our family, the Howes, and the neighbours on the mainland, with few exceptions,
looked on poor Tom and Barry as a stigma, a freak of nature. The boys, poor innocent mites, were
never properly forgiven because mother - who was greatly liked by everyone - died in giving birth to
them. At the height of the boys' fame, when they were universally popular, the feelings against them
changed to feelings of pride. But there was never any real concern for their terrible situation and, when
the end came, back came the old disgrace. Ever since, I have known ostracism, useless to deny it.
Laura Ashworth, who played a positive part in the life of Tom and Barry, would perhaps say that the
only shame lay in feeling shame, in these enlightened days. But it must be remembered that we live in a
remote and backward part of the country, and that the Howes had their origins here. Little has changed
on the coast of which L'Estrange Head forms part. Indeed, there has been recession rather than
progress, for my Aunt Hetty has told me how Deep-dale Staithe was a fine harbour in her young day,
until the channel silted up. It would be impossible for a grain boat to navigate now.
Of course, with my brothers' lives always beside me, as it were, I am still torn with emotion when I let
myself dwell on it. I was unable to write their story myself, not only because of strong feelings but through
my incapacity as an author; so I have put together what has been said by others concerned in the drama.
Going through the pages that result, I can only reflect that Tom could have become a happy man but for
the last twist of ill fate. Most of his life was still before him. As for Barry ' there was so much more to him
than the anger and violence on which many people have dwelt. Barry hated his fate even more than Tom;
yet hatred was not the only feature of his nature, by any means.
As for 'the other'... I'm long over my horror now, and think of it as one more grain ship that never sailed.
'The other's' channel to the sea was silted up even before it came into being. Pity seems to be more
appropriate than fear or shame.
Here I wish to thank all who contributed to the narrative, with particular thanks to Laura Ashworth for
her counsel and to Mr Henry Couling for financial aid. I thank Paul Day for permission to publish
excerpts from his songs.
I also have to thank John James Loomis of the Canadian Broadcasting Authority for permission to
include part of a taped interview made in connection with his TV biography, 'Bang-Bang You're Deadly'.
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